Date: 2018-04-06 15:53
I’m in this situation where I meet a lovely and handsome man at my local gym where I regularly workout, but I feel I’m somehow on my way to miss it up and mis my chance (if I haven’t already). I guess I better give you the whole story so you get the picture. In the beginning of this summer around June/July I meet him once and asked hims some question about some weights by chance and then I didn’t see him for almost half a year partly because I had a break from my workouts there. I then recently started working out again and one time I could feel someone observing me who turned out to be him. It too me a couple of times to realise that I’m actually interested in him as well, but because he makes me nervous because I kinda like him I’ve somehow failed to smile at him or ask take contact such as asking questions or so.
Once he smiled like a really big smile at me, but from afar so I wasn’t quite fast enough to get it ha ha. Then I caught him watching me again (also from afar) where we had a longer time of eye contact which was lovely and he was also looking as I left the gym before him. So I thought okay then its pretty obvious right! Then tonight I went to workout again and I warmed up running (I always warm up he never seems so hmm). I thought I saw him working out on the first floor (I was on the groung floor) in the reflection of the mirror, and sure enough:) When I’d finished running he stood there looking at me again from a safe distance. He then went to the same area where I always work out first and also did some workout. I had to use some part of a machine where he and another guy was standing and I then of course asked the other guy if I could borrow the “thing” – I mean why didn’t I just ask the guy I like. He was kinda looking at me as if ?? So then he did another machine in the same area and I chose to do the same, but I had to wait for my machine first. And before I’d finished my 8 sets he’d finished and so he went back upstairs to lift more weights which he’s already done, but he now chose a bench close to where I usually sit. But I was so confused and not knowing what to do that I just went upstairs, so stupid. I just dont know if I still have a chance ? And what would be my best option next time I see him. Should I still try or just forget it? I think he must be an introvert as he hasn’t really taken initiative to talk yet. And as for me I’m partly introvert when I’m shy (or like someone), and at times more extrovert when I feel in my safe places/environments.
I would really like not to mis this chance and revert the situation if possible.? Please help thx